All things do work for the good of those who love Him, even when it does not appear to be so. So often we wish to tell Him what we think needs to be done. When we explain to Him the logic of it all, we are building a wall and playing God.
Pray for enough humility to allow Him to give you what you need.
Read scripture. It contains a lot of lessons about His path leading to a better place than we had planned.
Meditate. This means purposely relaxing in the middle of it all.
Warriors of Light have the joy of being on the winning team. They enjoy learning the plays, showing talent in the scrimmage, scoring points and the comfort of the huddle. They agree on two key facts, there is a Coach and it is not them.