Our wants simply cannot be had until we want what we have. See the keys of Gratitude and Humility.
Not states of mind which befall us when everyone is behaving, but Spiritual tools for living.
Pray to see the Truth and be set free.
Read scripture. Be renewed.
Meditate. Stop the planning committee and breathe.
Warriors of Light know the Commander. They suffer no costs of living. They simply move forward with Trust doing the next right thing while keeping their side of the street clean.