An expectation formulated and deemed unfulfilled can create a resentment before anyone has a chance to read our unwritten memo about the immediate and unrealistic anticipations. Oh they should have called, they did not, it is assumed they care less than desired. Oh my!
Pray to keep expectations low and acceptance high.
Read scripture to clean the lens of your mind. Most leaves are green, complaining that they are not blue is futile.
Meditate. Relax and be grateful. He has arranged things for our benefit.
Warriors of Light are mindful to stay on the beam. He is the Director and He manages casting, the story is for learning and demonstrated growth. Even pain is beneficial as it stimulates change.