The Kingdom of God is at Hand, Between the Ears

Rational end goals serve best. If he has slammed the door each time he enters, you have mentioned displeasure but the slams continue, it is irrational to expect otherwise.

Our end goals must not include the behavior or feelings of others.

Pray to look for Love in all of the right places.

Read scripture and find the Kingdom of God is at hand, between the ears.

Meditate and find Peace.