Actions and inaction have consequences which cause the heart to grow or harden. With Him as the CEO there are no injustices or tragedies, only opportunities for growth. Appearances may differ but all things work for the good of His purposes.
Pray to understand the benefits of change.
Read scripture. Just having the books open will change the perspective.
Meditate on the Goodness in life.
Warriors of Light know that growth is measured by the warmth of their smile and their generosity. Hard times forge their spiritual weapons and practice their moves. Good times are green pastures. Constant are the times for Praise and Thanksgiving.