He designed it just so. All the lessons are for our betterment and trusting Him allows us the vision to see this Truth. His plans may seem challenging or unfair until we employ the scope of Gratitude to magnify His Goodness.
Pray and make the sacrifice of Praise with Thanksgiving. Watch impatience and frustration disappear.
Read scripture, it contains answers and Directions.
Meditate with deep breathing and Joy. Taking hands off the wheel gains the best steerage.
Warriors of Light know to step out of His Way that they might be in His Will. We create all our own problems through self centered fear and surrender gives us a winning hand.