We like things a certain way !
Many of these ways are orderly. However, the second law of thermodynamics states that things move naturally from order to disorder.
Best alternative is to embrace change. Most of us are willing to do this only if we can hide our favorite chair from this reality.
Pray for willingness. Let go and become willing.
Read scripture and devotionals to add good flavor to your willingness.
Meditate. For most, just doing this will be a change.
Warriors of Light rejoice in the opportunities to become more flexible. Their strength increases with flexibility.