Choose your words, forcing a change in thinking, choose your life. Repeat until it becomes natural. Nothing but goodness, kindness can stay in a life if that is what is spoken.
Honor Him by your words and you will become one honored by Him. Nice positioning to enjoy.
Pray to be thoughtful about what you speak into your life.
Read scripture and remind yourself that outward circumstances will change.
Meditate. Inhale deeply and relax. Repeat.
Warriors of Light find repetition to be the basis of training. It is enjoyable to visit with a Warrior, whose smile comes from within without need for validation