Each situation has the same answer. Trust God and keep your side clean. Quit planning your approach for correcting THEM. Quit keeping score.
Pray not to take ourselves too seriously, no one else does.
Read scripture for the truth.
Meditate. Stop moving and breathe deeply.
Warriors of Light are found giggling in their down time. Recognition of Truth brings a smile. Relax in that “all things work to the good of those who love the Lord.”