Everyone has the same puzzle, to choose a good angle of approach for each situation. It is not what happens to you that matters, it is how you use the opportunities that appear. You cannot be a victim without knowing how to do so and you cannot get kicked in the bottom without getting in position.
Pray to keep your head on straight looking upward, reaching for His hand.
Read scripture daily. Feed your spirit as routinely as your belly.
Meditate and relax. Let your mind clear and the ego be silenced.
Warriors of Light battle only at His Direction. The victory is assured with discipline employed. Remember not to take everything personally, when doing your best for Him others opinions are kindly rested without argument