Joy in relationships is found with increased acceptance and lowered expectations. Pain usually arrives with our own self centered list (which was not included for them in our initial interview or the unwritten memos we have sent). Instead, pray to Him before all contact, smile with those you enjoy and be kind to those you think wish to hurt you.
Pray at the start of everything for improved results.
Read scripture for better understanding of others.
Meditate for best performance and better understanding of yourself.
Warriors of Light sometimes pretend to have turned the volume off. They observe what people do, not what they say.
Boiling out expectations they add two cups of forgiveness, mix with love, bake in honesty, and everything tastes better!