No matter where you are or what the difficulty, the answer is always the same, just look up ! Love is waiting to enfold you hindered only by expectations of what that should feel like.
Start change with but one small step of kindness and begin swimming in a river of kind people.
Pray because you are speaking to the One in charge. Prayer is like aspirin, it works whether you believe or not.
Read scripture and find out that the old ones knew all the intricacies of our personal issues.
Meditate by breathing deeply. Look inside and See the answers.
Warriors of Light know that time is no hindrance to His purposes or our prayers. Our lives are made not by what happens but by our responses. Smile and the world smiles with you !