“A great poker player wins not by being dealt the best hand but by playing well the hand he is dealt.”
Concern yourself not with the “should” or the “ought”. See what is and learn. Accept and grow.
Pray for Direction.
Read scripture. Embrace its reservoir of wisdom.
Meditate. The stillness increases vision. It reminds us of the Truth.
Warriors of Light recognize each other by their eyes, the windows to the soul. They know pain is real but misery is optional.