Pain is real. Misery is optional. We love certain people, pets, plants, places and things. Often our love can almost define us. God and change are the only things which infinitely continue in our lives.
To hurt when we have lost is normal. Despair serves no one.
Pray to be able to appreciate your continued purpose.
Read scripture to guide your path.
Meditate. Stop and seriously consider your attitude.
Warriors of Light know the right angle of approach can display many blessings.